my girlfriend just admitted she has issues...she was molested as a child...and had a rough child hood and never felt wanted...she manipulates and lies about anything that people are not gonna like the answer to or just to make it better..shes also codependent she feels like she always needs some one to be happy..counseling is not helping cuz as soon as she goes home to her own place she'll start being sneaky cuz she knows no one will find out..so im ltherapy for liarsooking for a stay in program like drug rehab places..i want her to stay there so maybe she can come out healed
I recommend she get involved with one of the programs that have stemmed from Alcoholics Anonymous. They have treatment for spouses and children of Alcoholics. Likewise they have them for people who have been the family of Sex Addicts. Sex addicts act out in lots of ways, often by offending others. The group is called S-Anon. She can find suppotherapy for liarsrt from others who have experienced trauma having lived with or been victimized by others negative sexual behaviors. It is free. She can relate to others. She can get phone numbers of others so she can call when any problem arises. It has a lot to offer and she will be able to offer the same support to others in her similar situation.
How do you know she was really molested?? Might just be another lie.
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