I currently attend college. Parking off campus I met a man back in March, over the next few weeks and months it seemed as if he'd always be there when I would be arriving or be leaving. He seem to be overly friendly mainly touching my arms and shoulders and getting close to me at every opportunity. He's married, yet I continue to park near his home. I think part of it is the attention as well as wanting to see why he'll say next. I'm somewhat amused watching him fall all over himself so to speak. He seems to want to take it to the next level with all sorts of sutle hints, the last one being a massage. I had yet to respond to any of them. I spoke to him briefly last week but he seemed to no longer show an interest. During the summer break I told myself that if I was to have another opportunity this time I was going to take him up on it.
Friday I parked in front of his home only to have him pull up in front of my car we began talking, he asked if I was interested in an old married man? He was up front about his marriage and everything else. He left me with no doubts to what he's wanting and asked if I was at all interested .He said he wasn't sure if he could actually go through with it He than replied forget that I asked. I quickly replied to him "let me know if you change your mind". He then seemed to show interested. Thinking about it later I think I only commented because I felt he would never follow through. Am I mistaken to think he won't follow through? This is something I have never done before although I'll admit I've often wanted too. My friends tell me that a man does not joke around when it come to sex? Is this true? Have I given him the green light?
confused.....
Yes you've given him the green light a long time ago. Congrats you are stepping into homewrecker territory! You obviously have no class or standards bc you knew exactly what you were doing. Even enticing a married man with no intentions is shameless your parents must be proud. Remember, what goes around comes around!
no, he wants sex... but he was expecting you to turn him down flat...
but now you have shown interest, he'll follow through... :D
he's married. don't do it. this sounds like just another dirty old man looking to fulfill his filthy fantasies. please don't do it. you will feel guilty later. keep your dignity.
wtf...why are you messing with a married man??
He's interested, but is trying to confuse you for whatever reasons.
I too always wanted to be with a married man and then I got my wish. Looking back at it I now realize it wasn't worth it. For one the guy was lousy (so was his penis size) and then the next day he went around telling all my ex co-workers what a ho I was.
married but looking to cheat
If you've made up your mind and this is what you want to do then go for it. Just don't get too comfortable and once the sex is over don't expect it to happen again. Think of it as an elongated one night stand IF he chooses to sleep with you more than once.
I would highly recommend that you take a good, hard look at this situation before you do something that you may end up regretting.
It is sad to me that nowadays even marriage, which is supposed to be the highest level of commitment, is cheapened and vows are not upheld. How would you feel knowing that if you did sleep with him, you would be 1/2 of the equation that completely devastates his wife? Can you even imagine how it would feel to be married or even in a long-term committed relationship where you found out that your husband cheated on you? And if you go through with it, can you deal with the guilt?
I have a co-worker who recently had an affair with a married man. Looking back on the situation, she highly regrets it and is having a hard time getting her life back on track and dealing with the guilt. Also, she has ended up actually developing feelings for a man who says that he will leave his wife for her but who has no intention of actually doing so. I would hate for the same situation to happen to you...
As a male put in that position I would go all the way [90% would] for the sex and make it the best possible, Re further encounters that would be dependant on my excising relationship, you, and what we both expected out of it and who will get hurt as some one all ways does and will so the sex must be great.
i didnt read your question because it was too long but just by the title i can tell you that he is no man at all. .... men dont cheat, boys do!
Sorry honey, unless you're five years old, you're not confused. Would you want some woman to lead your husband on? Us women need to stick together and keep these men honest. Why would you want to even involve yourself with a low life like him, lack of self esteem? Don't you think you're good enough or worthy enough to get a single guy to take interest in you?
I know the lure of the forbidden can seem exciting but it is never a good idea and never ends well.
Quit parking near his house, quit talking to him or entertaining thoughts about this maggot. If you hook up with him, you're no better than he is and he's a piece of sh^t. If he continues to pester you, threaten to tell his wife and call the police and report him for stalking. He sounds like a pedophile to me.
Maybe the education you are suppose to be getting isn't sinking in.
You need to get a life and make better choices for yourself.
Has it occured to you that this creep may have children? Do you wanmarried but looking to cheatt to be responsible for hurting his kids? Has it occured to you he may have an STD? There are plenty of STD's you can get even if you use protection. Is your health worth the risk?
If you go for it, you'll get nothing but heartache. Did you know that a woman once sued the woman who had an affair with her husband and won? Take some responsibility for your actions and make the right decisions when it comes to managing your life. This guy doesn't care about you, if you don't care about you, no one else will.
You're not confused. You're an idiot. Plain and simple, you are playing with fire. Does this man have kids? Will he leave his wife for the likes of you? And if he does leave his wife for you, you know that he will do to you what he did to his wife. You just like this cat and mouse game and don't be surprised if his wife finds out one day and comes after you. You will witness rage like you've never experienced and if she wipes the cement with you, don't go crying. Nothing good ever comes from having an affair with a married man. He's a liar, a cheat and a user. All he wants from you is the convenience of not having to pay for a hooker.
Whats to be confused about? He's a man, he's married, he wants to bone and your are in the classic forbidden fruit scenario....The things you need to concern yourself with is if the complication is worth it? So besides the naughty sex and the attention that is very typical of a woman's desire what are your looking to get out of it? Do you want a constant FuBu? In most cases the forbidden fruit edge tends to dilute after time. I also have to ask, of all the guys that are in college, young hot and not married why pick a older married man? Can't you find a man with less baggage? I know its not in most woman's nature to think ahead and in the long term but sometimes the price of your peace of mind is not worth the 30 mins of usually non fulfilling sex. Maybe his wife won't sleep with him for a reason. Good luck
lol, if that was me, you'd be dumb F**ed by now. : )
You say you're confused but you're not confused.
I think you probably need therapy, because you seem really unsure of yourself and so desperate for attention that you're willing to flirt with a creepy old married man. For your sake, seek counseling so you can learn to respect yourself and take care of yourself. Getting mixed up with this loser is a way for you to sabotage your life, and no one wants to see you make such a big mistake.
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